Being a scaredy-cat when you’re a young woman is no fun. You miss out on so many opportunities because you have no confidence in yourself. And that’s wrong. You are pretty, you are intelligent, you are independent and you have a wicked sense of humour. It’s just that you dont know it yet. No one has ever told you.
Don’t you worry, silly head. Don’t be afraid. What’s the worst that could happen? You’re only 20. You will face many dramas in your later life but 20 is no age to be scared. Have fun. Don’t pay attention to the bitter and twisted. You have the strength to do what you want. And if you think you’re not ready, then think again. No one is ready. Just take a chance on life and trust yourself.
And please. Don’t make excuses. Lack of money or time, people’s opinions are the worst reason for not doing things. I know, it’s not easy. But believe me, being free from your fears is the best gift you will ever have. And you’re the only one who can give it to yourself.
So yeah. Here’s my suggestion. Don’t be afraid.